So, a guy named Zuby put up this advice for women on how to get men.
Advice For Women – How To Land a Great Guy:
1/ Maximise your looks
2/ Be sweet
3/ Don’t be annoying
These 3 alone will put you in the top 5% immediately.
— ZUBY: (@ZubyMusic) April 12, 2019
If you had a group of men discussing what they liked in women, the list would be a lot longer than that, so if anything, he’s underselling it. In fact, if this bar is too high for you to jump over, you might well go get your crazy cat lady starter set because you do not have a bright future with the opposite sex.
So, what was the reaction to this tweet that did fairly well? A little of what you’d expect, but also lots of personal attacks on the guy, lots of white knights rushing to the tweet and other women who apparently expect to be thought of as amazing just because they’re gracing all of us here on planet earth with their presence.
I want you to read some of the over-the-top reactions to Zuby’s very basic, very good advice about how to get a guy.
Women: this advice is a good indication on who to avoid.
— Karen McBain (@KarenMcBain) April 14, 2019
That doesn’t sound like it comes from a ‘great guy’. As for being annoying: I think you just took that prize.
— Dr Cathy Dalton (@dubarry_mme) April 14, 2019
How to land a great guy:
1: Don’t date guys who tell you to “Be sweet”
— Angelheaded Hipster (@angelhededhpstr) April 14, 2019
Great advice for guys, don’t tell women how to act. 👍
— Two-ears-for-listening (@lloydus2215137) April 14, 2019
Advice for men- stop trying to tell women what to do, it’s very unattractive.
— Mrs. P (@jowendes) April 14, 2019
Any guy that tweets like this is a twat. Avoid men like this. Women be yourself, if he’s a good guy he’ll love you for who you are. Not what he wants to make you. It’s their own insecurities that’s the problem, not women.
— paleburnedacid (@paleburnedacid) April 14, 2019
Keep a man? It’s not a game. Relationships are meant to be mutual and equal. If i have to work to keep someone that sounds like they’re kind of abusive
— Rowan Martin Copywriting (@rmcopywriting) April 15, 2019
Advice for Men
1) Don’t presume to tell women how to be
— Gill Maxwell 🏴🇪🇺 (@GillMaxwell) April 15, 2019
Be sweet? Don’t be annoying? That does sound a tad arrogant and belittling… are you looking for a woman or a pet dog? 😉
— Karyn Lisignoli (@KarynLisignoli) April 13, 2019
Literally how billions of women end up abused, in poverty and/or abandoned once they get sick of being treated like children or punching bags. Advice for Women- Avoid men like Zuby.
— Rara Avis (@RaraAvisPipare) April 14, 2019
By the way, here’s a little advice for the people complaining. If you’re a white knight, you might get some pats on the head for it online, but most women HATE it. I still remember a woman I know telling me that she immediately “dried up” the second she started reading some white knight trying to defend womenkind. No wonder. It just screams “I am weak and pathetic.”
As to the women complaining, if you want to be adored by men on your own terms, you’re probably going to struggle with dating as long as you live. If looking good, being sweet and trying not to annoy your man are too much to ask, then you probably don’t bring much to the table for a man that a prostitute doesn’t and prostitutes are cheaper and I’m guessing, prettier and more pleasant. I don’t recommend that men use prostitutes and come to think of it, I wouldn’t recommend that any man should be with a woman who’d get offended by that kind of tweet either.