This May Be the Most Depressing Statistic About Online Dating That You Will Ever Read

I was going to write about an article called, ‘I secretly date people who aren’t my boyfriend – but I don’t think it’s cheating.’ The level of self-delusion there is so epic that it’s hard to pass up, but the article also had what I thought was the mot depressing statistic about online dating that I’ve ever seen.

No, it’s not the fact that women only find roughly 20% of men attractive or the horrible numbers dating websites like Tinder put up for millennials, it’s this,

I’m definitely not the only one doing this: according to one recent, wide-ranging study by researchers in the Netherlands and USA, between 18% and 25% of the users swiping on one of the world’s most popular dating apps are actually in a committed relationship – a figure that jumps to 42% in the USA.

4.2 out of every 10 people on Tinder are “in a committed relationship?” Perhaps surprisingly, women are even worse than men on the dating app,

While several findings show that people can use Tinder to be unfaithful, this is not necessarily the case for everyone. In a representative Dutch study on sexuality, for instance, only half of men who were using dating apps while in a committed relationship actually reported sexual intercourse with another person met on a dating app. Surprisingly, this was not the case for women, as all women who were using dating apps while in a committed relationship reported engaging in extradyadic sexual intercourse.

When you start thinking about that many people browsing Tinder while they’re in a committed relationship, you start wondering how much being in a committed relationship really means in the first place to a big chunk of the population. Be careful out there because so many of “them hoes ain’t loyal.”

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John Hawkins created in 2001; built it up to a top 10,000 in the world website; created a corporation with more than 20 employees to support it; created a 3.5 million person Facebook page; became one of the most popular conservative columnists in America; was published everywhere from National Review to Human Events, to Townhall, to PJ Media, to the Daily Wire, to The Hill; wrote a book 101 Things All Young Adults Should Know that was at one point top 50 in the self-help section on Amazon; did hundreds of hours as a guest on radio shows, raised $611,000 in a GoFundMe for Brett Kavanaugh’s family and has been talked about everywhere from The New York Times to Buzzfeed, to the Washington Post, to Yahoo News, to the Rush Limbaugh Show, to USA Today. After seeing the unjust way that Brett Kavanaugh was treated during his hearings and how a lifetime worth of good work was put at risk by unprovable allegations, John Hawkins decided to create a men’s website. Welcome to Brass Pills!


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