This advice about women that I randomly ran across today was AMAZINGLY good. Really spot-on:
If they wanted to see you, they would make the time for you.
If they wanted to talk, they’d call or text.
If they were interested in you — really interested in you in the way that you deserve to be cared for — they would put in the effort to see you and make you feel special
If they wanted to be with you…you’d have no doubt in your mind.
You could sum this up as, “If you’re confused about whether she likes you or not, she’s not interested.”
This is not what you see in movies, not how you’re told it works (“Maybe she’s playing hard to get”) and not what you hear from people trying to sell you on their pick-up artist program, but in my experience, it’s almost always true. Especially once you start picking up on women’s indicators of interests, you don’t get that confused anymore because women that are interested in you put out signs. Usually a lot of signs and no, they aren’t as clear as the signs guys tend to give, but once you have seen them enough, you get it.