Short answer: Hell, no!
Would it be normal/healthy if I (19f) told my boyfriend (19m) to ask before touching my boobs/butt?
We met via tinder and have been together going on 3 months. This is my first relationship. He’s really understanding and respectful of me and I feel like we have pretty good communication. The only thing about our relationship that makes me anxious is sexual stuff.
I’ve never had someone touch me sexually before him and while sometimes I enjoy it, other times it makes me feel kind of gross and i’m not sure why yet. He likes to grab my boobs and touch my butt and he compliments me all the time and idk sometimes i just don’t want to be viewed sexually if that makes sense??? I was always under the impression that if you were dating someone it should be normal for them to touch your boobs and stuff whenever and i really tried to just let it happen but idk I just don’t like that he doesn’t ask first.
Would this be a normal request? Is it weird that I don’t like it even though we’re dating?