Rocks And Gold: My Wife Wants To Leave Me Without Even Trying Counseling

My wife (31F) wants to leave me (34M) without even trying counseling and I can’t convince her not to

— relationships.txt (@redditships) November 1, 2018

In The Game, Neil Strauss talked about a concept called “rocks and gold.” For the woman, rocks is date night, going to the club, having a nice dinner out and generally being romantic. For men, gold is sex. Do both men and women like rocks and gold? Yes, but women tend to be more fulfilled by the romantic side of things while men tend to care more about the sex. If the rocks or gold is lacking in a relationship, you can be sure that at least one person is really unhappy.