People love to chalk their problems up to some kind of medical condition as if that relieves them of their responsibility to work on it. This is a great example of how that type of rotten thinking impacts the people around them:
MY wife and I used to have a great sex life but now she’s just offering me oral sex as long as I don’t touch her.
I’m 46, she’s 48 and entering the menopause.
She says she loves me but the thought of being physical makes her sick. She says it’s not me, it’s her.