Her Husband is Transitioning to Female and She Doesn’t Know Whether She Should Get a Divorce

This is a very weird, very 2020 kind of problem that seems to be becoming increasingly common.

Me (34f) struggling with wife (36f) of 12 years transition

Hi all, Throwaway because.

Edit because I think the way I worded it was confusing: My spouse was born male and presented as male until they came out to me as trans last September. They now identify as female which is why I am using “she.”