He Prefers Pornography to Sex With His Girlfriend?

This is actually more common than you’d think:

I’m 29 and she is 25. I’ve been with her four months and I love her a lot. Before that I was single for six years and I didn’t have sex all that time.

I’m so happy to be with my girlfriend but I don’t get the sensation I have when I’m doing the business alone.

I get more sensation and stronger orgasms when I’m masturbating with porn.

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I know sex should be so much better, but what do I do?

This excerpt from Your Brain on Porn is absolutely mind-blowing and yes, the most likely explanation for it is pornography:

What about other historical rates of ED in peer-reviewed literature using various instruments? First, here are results from the 2 major cross-sectional studies on ED in sexually active American men. Both predated heavy internet penetration.

In the 1940s, the Kinsey report concluded that the prevalence of ED was less than 1% in men younger than 30 years, less than 3% in those 30–45.

A 1999 cross-sectional study (based on data gathered in 1992) published by the Journal of the American Medical Association reported erectile dysfunction rates of only 5%, and low sexual desire in 5%. In that study, the ages of the men surveyed ranged from 18 to 59, so a third of them were over 40, which means the rates for sexually active men under 40 were lower.

…Now, we turn to other recent studies on young men (~40 and under). Using the IIEF-5, a 2012 cross-sectional study of Swiss men aged 18-24 found ED rates of 30%, and a 2010 Brazilian study of men 18-40 reported ED rates of 35%. A 2013 Italian study reported one in four patients seeking help for new onset ED were younger than 40. Astonishingly, the rate of severe ED was nearly 10% higher in younger men than in men over 40.

If a 70-year-old was having trouble in the sack, you’d get it, but does it make any sense at all to you that a young, healthy man shouldn’t be firing at 110% during sex? 1%? 2%? Sure, there are outliers, but 30%? 35%? It’s madness.

Moreover, if he’s having this problem at 29 and doesn’t change, how are things going to be when he gets a little older and the hormones aren’t working like they did when he was young? The best thing he can do is stop using porn & give his brain time to recover.

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John Hawkins created Rightwingnews.com in 2001; built it up to a top 10,000 in the world website; created a corporation with more than 20 employees to support it; created a 3.5 million person Facebook page; became one of the most popular conservative columnists in America; was published everywhere from National Review to Human Events, to Townhall, to PJ Media, to the Daily Wire, to The Hill; wrote a book 101 Things All Young Adults Should Know that was at one point top 50 in the self-help section on Amazon; did hundreds of hours as a guest on radio shows, raised $611,000 in a GoFundMe for Brett Kavanaugh’s family and has been talked about everywhere from The New York Times to Buzzfeed, to the Washington Post, to Yahoo News, to the Rush Limbaugh Show, to USA Today. After seeing the unjust way that Brett Kavanaugh was treated during his hearings and how a lifetime worth of good work was put at risk by unprovable allegations, John Hawkins decided to create a men’s website. Welcome to Brass Pills!

 

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