A Woman Wants to Know Why So Many Men Find Dating So Difficult

On Reddit, a woman asked what I thought was a very reasonable question:

Trying to understand why men find dating so difficult

Across this and many other dating subs, I constantly see the same refrain: women have dating so much better than men. Women have all the cards, and men are lucky beg for a scrap of attention from the women they pursue.

I’m completely baffled by this postulation. Not only have I not seen it anecdotally supported, it defies any kind of logical reasoning. Discounting the fact that some women prefer to date women and not men, we have to reasonably assume that the majority of women prefer to date men, right? So if women are going on dates, doesn’t that mean that men are also going on dates? Where is this perceived inequity?

Despite my attempts to see otherwise, it seems like every other post or comment thread on this sub contains some reference to how tough men have it out there in the dating world.

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