A woman asked how to flirt with a guy. Actually, she asked for a “foolproof” way to do it. Of course, there’s no “foolproof” way to flirt because the guy may not be into you. Also, men are not as subtle as women. So, you can be flirting with a guy and he may have NO IDEA you’re doing it. Then, there’s the possibility that the guy SUSPECTS you are flirting with him, but he’s scared of rejection, so he STILL doesn’t make a move. But, let’s set all that aside and offer up some ways for a woman to flirt with a guy.
Among other things, you could…
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Find excuses to talk to him. It doesn’t matter if they’re dumb.
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Laugh at his bad jokes.
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Touch him playfully. Arm punches, shoulder shoves, touching his hand or shoulder to emphasize a point. Try to do these in a cluster.
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Ask him if he has a girlfriend.
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Hint about things you’d like to do. “Wow, I’d love to go see the new “IT” movie. Wish I had someone to go see it with.” Etc.
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Compliment him.
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Dress hot and ask him how it looks.
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Tell one of his friends you think he’s good looking or smart or really awesome or whatever floats your boat.
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Hold eye contact with him.
Don’t do just one of these either. Do several of them. Then, if he doesn’t bite, he’s probably not into you or alternately is just too scared to make a move. So at that point, you can just move on.
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