Without even realizing it, women lie to themselves every single day. If you find yourself having any of these thoughts, you need to do some serious self-reflection.
- “Appearance doesn’t matter”
Sure, maybe you don’t feel like doing your hair and makeup every day or changing out of your yoga pants and messy bun, but don’t fool yourself into thinking that your looks don’t matter. Looking your best boosts your self-esteem and affects how you interact with people around you. It’s also critical to what kind of first-impression you give off, and how people think of you. You don’t have to go full glam every day, but taking care of yourself is never a bad thing.
- “I don’t need a man.”
Being independent is a trait that every person should have, but that doesn’t mean that you don’t need a significant other in your life. Even if you’ve been disappointed in your relationships in the past, you shouldn’t allow your exes to affect your pursuit of love and happiness. You’re giving them much more power than they deserve. Never be afraid to fall in love with someone even if you end up heartbroken, because even that is better than passing up “the one” by being cold and closed off.
3. “I don’t care”